Dating After College...a Virgin Girl's Worry?

How does a single, nearly 23 year old girl go about meeting a nice guy? It's not that I want to be married yet but I feel like every guy I meet only wants sex. I know men are wired this way. I'm not into huge megachurches so I don't want to do the singles scene at a gigantic church & I do like the bar scene but I never go w/ the intent of meeting someone. I tried a free online dating site (okCupid) & I did meet some skeezy people. I'm still a virgin, a Christian (not perfect by any means), fairly attractive & physically in shape so what's going on? Is it me? I don't think I'm too picky. All I'd like is someone who I can talk to and have fun with. Someone who I genuinely have a connection with. Everything else is fluff. If it takes me 20 years to find that person, so be it.. I just hope it comes sooner than that.