Giving up on Dating Altogether?

So...I think I'm going to give up on dating...I'm a little discouraged so I think I'm just going to do things I like (w/ friends & by myself) & do a lot of self-improvement. I'm 22 & I turn 23 next month. It's not that I want to be married yet but I feel like every guy I meet only wants sex. I know men are wired this way though. I'm not into huge megachurches so I don't want to do the singles scene at a gigantic church & I do like the bar scene but I never go w/ the intent of meeting someone. I tried a free online dating site (okCupid) & I did meet some skeazy people. I'm still a virgin, a Christian (not perfect by any means), fairly attractive & physically in shape so what's going on? Is it me? I don't think I'm too picky. All I'd like is someone who I can talk to and have fun with. Someone who I genuinely have a connection with. Everything else is fluff. If it takes me 20 years to find that person, so be it.. I just hope it comes sooner than that.